Self Esteem Shop May 2012 Newsletter

Published: Fri, 05/11/12


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May 2012


 
IN THIS ISSUE

May Special
Upcoming Conferences
Full Interview with Loretta Gallo-Lopez and Larry Rubin
Autism Awareness Month Reading Recommendations
Conference Recap
Reflections on Mother's Day




Upcoming Conferences:
 June
June 15

Boys & Girls at Risk: Emerging Science of Gender Differences

Madison, WI


Keynote Speakers: Cynthia Burggraf Torppa
June 18-19

Virginia Association for Play Therapy 16th Annual "Come Play With Us" Conference

Becoming a Brain-Wise Therapist: Using Play Therapy & Expressive Arts Across the Lifespan

Harrisonburg, VA

 

Featured Presenter: Bonnie Badenoch

June 23-26

American School Counselor Association Conference (ASCA)

Minneapolis, MN


Keynote Speakers: Dan Savage, Stacey Bess, Jamie Vollmer
June 25-26

Appalachian Play Therapy Center 4th Annual Conference

A Mythic Fairy Tale of Dreams: Jungian Play Therapy with Children
Columbia, Kentucky
 
Featured Presenter: Eric Green
June 27-28

Kentucky Council for Children with Behavior Disorders Behavior Institute 2012

Lexington, KY
 
Featured Speakers: Mr. Mojo (Travis Brown), Marcia Tate, Dianna Browning-Wright, Marlene Wong
June 27-30

APSAC 20th Annual Colloquium

Chicago, IL
 
Featured Speakers: Victor Vieth, Kathleen Faller, Cynthia Swenson, David Kolko, Geraldine Crisci, Mary Jo Barrett, Cheryl Lanktree, Jon Conte

July
July 10-13

National Institute for Trauma & Loss in Children - Childhood Trauma Practitioner's Assembly

Clinton Twp, MI


Featured Speakers: William Steele, Caelan Kuban, Pamela Lemerand, Gretchen Miller, Linda Peterson-St. Pierre, Dave Opalewski
 

July 13-14

Johns Hopkins 2012 Play Therapy Institute

Rekindling Hope in Children Shattered by Trauma

Rockville, MD


Featured Presenters:  Eliana Gil, Eric Green, & David Crenshaw
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 





April came and went in the blink of an eye. As they say, time really does fly when you're having fun! April was certainly an invigorating and eventful month for Self Esteem Shop. We were out and about for much of April participating in some great conferences and doing so many interesting things that we almost forget to send all of our friends an April newsletter. It's always better late than never, so we combined our April and May editions into a super-newsletter with twice as much good stuff inside.


Catching Up

Every April brings National Autism Awareness Month. Since the 1970s, it has provided a special opportunity to educate the public about autism and issues within the autism community. 

In March, we had a great time talking to Loretta Gallo-Lopez & Lawrence Rubin about the book they co-edited, Play-Based Interventions for Children & Adolescents on the Autistic Spectrum. We also had the pleasure of  seeing their informative and playful presentation at the Florida Association for Play Therapy Conference in late March. To gear up for awareness month, we gave you a sneak preview of that interview in our March newsletter. As promised, SES brings you the rest of that thought-provoking interview in its entirety here.

In the foreword you say each chapter describes common therapeutic elements. Please expand on this.

By common therapeutic elements, we are referring to useful therapeutic factors that are the basis of  the work of each author/clinician. Such common therapeutic factors include following or building upon the child's interests, encouraging the child's initiative, becoming and remaining connected and interacting in ways that are meaningful for the child.  

How did you choose the authors for this compilation?

We scanned the literature and our large network of colleagues who were working with this population, with an eye toward those who were doing empirically grounded, in addition of course, to clinically meaningful work.

Who is your target audience?

Our target audience is clinicians at every level of practice and in every facet of mental health care, as well as educators and advocates for this challenging population.

What was the over-all goal of this book, and how does it differ from other books in the ASD field?

There really is no other compendium of practical, empirically grounded, and theory-driven play-based and play therapy techniques and methods for this population. Our goal was twofold - first to draw attention to the amazing work already being done with this population via play based interventions--and second to provide encouragement and inspiration to other play and creative therapists so that they might use their skills with this population enabling even more children and teens with autism spectrum disorders to experience the life changing benefits of play based interventions.

The writing from the authors is such that it's accessible for non-professionals; do you recommend it for parents, teachers and other adults dealing with children on the spectrum? 

Absolutely! It is a book that lends itself to meaningful and useful conversations by all of those involved in the care, education and treatment of this population.

This book is an excellent resource for alternative practices clinicians may not have considered.  What factors should be taken into account in determining the treatment of choice?

Clinical experience, playfulness, creativity, a respect for the literature and clinical base and willingness to stretch one's skills into this arena.

What was your biggest revelation as you wrote and compiled this handbook?

Perhaps that many clinicians and trainees out there who are not necessarily deeply experienced with this population, can learn (and be taught) to apply their play-therapy skills to working with these children and adolescents with autism spectrum disorders.

As a result of this comprehensive compilation, are there particular treatment interventions  that you believe will become  standard  protocol in the future?

We expect that as clinicians begin systematically applying the theory and methods of Canine Assisted Play Therapy, Client Centered Play Therapy, Theraplay/Developmental Play Therapy, Drama Therapy, and Filial Therapy; in addition to the methods and techniques of the creative/expressive therapies, i.e., art, music, dance and movement therapy, that solid results will follow and lives will be changed.

What changes would you like to see to meet the needs of parents and  siblings  of children on the spectrum as well as the children themselves?

Increased support and a deeper appreciation for the challenges that both parents and siblings face. As far as children and teens with ASD, we would hope to see a greater understanding of the many gifts and abilities that these children and teens possess, increased tolerance and acceptance, and a willingness to reach gently and compassionately into their worlds

A big thanks to Loretta Gallo-Lopez and Lawrence Rubin for taking the time to talk with us about their new book. Snag your own copy today.

Of course raising personal and public awareness of the ASD (autism spectrum disorders) doesn't end in April! Here are a few hot-off-the-press recommendations for further reading on the topic

Dr. Temple Grandin's recently published Different...Not less: Inspiring Stories of Achievement and Successful Employment from Adults with Autism, Asperger's, and ADHD is full of motivational anecdotes that prove that determination makes all the difference. Dr. Grandin compiles fourteen stories of personal triumph from a diverse group of adults. All of the inspiring individuals who tell their stories of success in this book have supported themselves most of their lives and many did not receive their diagnoses until later in life. Their stories recollect how their place on the spectrum affected their careers, education, and personal relationships throughout their lives, but ultimately didn't prevent them from achieving their goals. Families and those with ASD will recognize the familiar difficulties and discover how others have used those experiences to grow. Great read for all! Find it at Self Esteem Shop here.


Looking for a fantastic, interactive book to help children with anxiety or anger issues? Not just for ASD kids, A "5" Could Make Me Lose Control! by Kari Dunn Buron is an activity book to help identify what specific situations upset a child or make him/her nervous on a scale of one-to-five, one being "I can handle this," all the way to five being, "This can make me lose control!" The companion guide is a very useful aid for the educator, practitioner, or parent to teach the child how to "scale down" and make a situation less stressful. This resource presents a non-confrontational method to discovering thoughts a child would otherwise feel uncomfortable sharing.  It's a great way for any kid to learn self-control and for parents to improve their understanding of what makes their kids tick! Learn more here


The Survival Guide for Kids with Autism Spectrum Disorders (and Their Parents) by Elizabeth Reeve, M.D., and Elizabeth Verdick hit bookshelves in late March. This is an excellent book for kids to share with their parents. It answers all the questions children and their parents may encounter in a simple, direct way. Fun illustrations and relatable stories from other kids with ASD make The Survival Guide very kid-friendly. Perfect for families who need some guidance in understanding recent diagnoses, but its clear presentation definitely makes it a worthy for kids and parents who have been aware of ASD for years. Just in at SES! Check it out here

Conference Recap

We've traveled from coast to coast over the last month or so for some really terrific conferences. Since our last newsletter we attended the Florida Association for Play Therapy Conference in Orlando, the Colorado Association for Play Conference, the Virginia Association for Play Therapy conference, and more. This past weekend brought Self Esteem Shop all the way to California for the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists Conference in San Diego. Fun was had, many friendly faces were met, a lot was learned, but are we ever glad to be home!
 

Conference Participants Perusing the Book Selection in Orlando


Presenter at Kentucky Association for Play Therapy, Margo Winstead (left) with conference participant, Joan Miller


Dr. Laurie Zelinger and doctoral candidate Angela Trapani presenting their study on speech and social difficulties in young boys at the New York Association for Play Therapy Conference

Thanks to everyone who made all of our recent conference trips great experiences!

Happy Mother's Day

Self Esteem Shop wishes all the mothers, grandmothers, and future mothers of the world a very happy Mother's Day. This Sunday we celebrate the great influence mothers and mother figures have on our lives. Whether your mother is near or far, or you're a mom yourself, celebrate the day by reflecting on motherhood and how it touches all of our lives.

If you're looking for a creative way to tell Mom just how great she is, Mom: Because of You is a lovely way to do it. This inspirational book by Dan Zadra and Kobi Yamada is beautifully illustrated and each page reminds mothers of their job well done with eloquent prose. This is one of our favorites at Self Esteem Shop!  It makes a great gift for Mother's Day.

Celebrating You is a short book that is light-hearted and sentimental. We all need to celebrate ourselves from time to time and many of us forget. Moms are especially guilty of this! This book has a classy, carefree vibe to its with tidbits of inspiration like "You have an inner joy that spills out" to the more encouraging, "You are strong. Even when you don't feel that way." We just got this one in and we're really excited to share it. Check it out here


Mother's Day can be tough for those of us whose mothers are no longer with us. Marianne Richmond wrote a wonderful and thoughtful book that offers great insight on memories and healing. The Gift of a Memory is valuable for mothers and children, or any person who has suffered loss. For many of us, this holiday provides a day to cultivate memories of our mothers so that we may meditate on them and embrace them. In Gift of a Memory, Richmond extends a comforting hand in cherishing those memories. Get it here

Losing a mother is one of the most difficult events of an individual's life. Hope Edelman's Motherless Daughters explores the enduring effects of mother-loss on a daughter. Whether you've lived a few days or several decades without your mother, picking up Motherless Daughters delivers an eye-opening affirmation of the incredible significance of a mother-daughter relationship. This bestselling book makes a great companion for any daughter. Order it here.We also have Edelman's follow-up, Motherless Mothers on sale at Self Esteem Shop for those daughters who grew up to have children of their own.


Wishing all of you a happy weekend and wonderful Mother's Day. Stay tuned for details about an upcoming special on annual subscriptions to Wiley journals.

We are trying to get better everyday. If you have any comments, questions, or suggestions for our next newsletter or in general, we would love to hear from you! Please contact us at info@selfesteemshop.com and connect with us on facebook
 
 
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